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Lesson 11 of 1220 minutesFree

Offers, negotiation and references

Compare offers on the whole package, set your three numbers before the call, and plan a calm, confident negotiation.

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Before you start

Your path

Choose your field and level. The examples and suggestions in this lesson change to match.

The story

She said yes before he'd finished

Mei · Design lead · first head-of role

After five months of searching, Mei was offered the head of design role she wanted. The search consultant called with the salary, and before he'd finished the sentence, she'd said yes.

A few weeks later she learned that a peer hired at the same level had asked for more, and been given it, with a share option grant and a six-month notice period.

“Nobody was offended. If anything, they seemed to respect me more.”

An offer is the moment your position is strongest. A polite, well-prepared negotiation is normal and expected by many employers. This lesson is general guidance, not financial or legal advice.

Step 1 · Compare the whole package

Salary is only part of the offer

Enter up to two offers (or an offer and your current role). Put a rough yearly value on what can be valued; then score the things that can't, from 1 to 5.

Step 2 · Your three numbers

Decide before anyone asks

Your target (ambitious but defensible), your acceptable figure, and your private walk-away point. Use your research from Lesson 2.

Step 3 · Your negotiation script

Warm, specific and brief

Thank them, confirm you're keen, ask for one or two specific changes with a reason, and stop talking.

Your script

★ Core activity

Your offer decision sheet

Your package comparison, three numbers and negotiation script, on one page.

Before you move on

Three questions

Five minutes, in English or your own language: whichever lets you think most clearly.

What to remember

Five things to keep

Next

Lesson 12: Your first 90 days

Plan your first ninety days, take the Job-Readiness Check again, and see how far you've come.

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